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Like
Melanie and many other girls Cassandra started with almost nothing and has
created a new life for herself as a woman. This is her
story........
I was born in
Colombia South America just few years ago....
I had a happy
childhood, well-loved by my family especially by my mother. Maybe it was
because I was the youngest among her six children or because she already knew
that I was "special."
Due to the
never-ending crisis in my country I decide to move to Spain. At that time I
was, young and full of hope.
The situation
in Spain didn’t allow me to be what I really wanted…I could not find
a job in the Industrial Chemical and Mechanical area (those were my only study
credentials at that time), so I decided to move to Germany. This decision was
not much better as I didn’t speak a word of German nor English. Although I
liked these languages so much!.
With the help
of friends, I moved to Amsterdam in the Netherlands...the city where Mistress
Cassandra was to be born soon after!
The first
years were very difficult, without friends, money or a place to stay. Fate
however allways plays its role both sides and I thank God that those hardships
I experienced are all now in the past! Being both sensible and a person of
virtues, I used those difficulties as a reminder of who I was and who I am
now.
It was during
the time of my difficulties that I met two girls who became very endearing to
me... They were also very special by themselves. I knew there was something
that bothered me about them, until they told me the big truth: that they ware
transsexuals!
I thought of
myself as a lucky person ...I found two beautiful transsexuals with a heart of
gold willing to help me all the way. They gave me their time and effort in
helping me discovering my long troubled self-identity. They paved the way for
my feminization. Well OK, I must be honest…It was an exciting but at the
same time also scary idea.
After many
confrontations with myself and with the world around me, things slowly unfolded
before my eyes…the reality of who and what I am. I started to accept
myself and did not fight my feelings anymore. From then on, I learned the art
of being feminine, the art of being beautiful and the art of being a Mistress.
Yes, I did became a professional Mistress for many years.
Working as a
Mistress was a great experience. Never before in my life I met the soul of
people in such a transparent way!
After a while
of working in that profession, I thought I had better go back to Colombia and
just do the things that I always dreamt to do there. I went back to my
homeland.
But after a
short time, I found that I no longer belonged over there…Holland was
already in my heart!
I did return
to the land of the famous windmills, and there I met my sweet babe and now
partner, Marion, a transgender person as I am!
In time, I
got used to the job of being a Mistress (again!) and in fact started to enjoy
the thrills it gave. But there was something still missing in my
life…
One day, a
friendly guy came to my studio and asked me to help him with his
transformation. It was strange as he was telling me that he wished to look as
feminine as possible. As he put it, he wanted to look as feminine as me. I
thought it to be a sincere compliment but it would surely take me some hours
work whereas normally, most of my clients just went for the easy way: sexy
clothes, horny shoes, a wig and lipstick!
During the
process of making him over and dressing him up, I felt that my soul was somehow
connected to him in a way that I was living through him at that very moment,
reminding me of how I lived in the past few years...an amazing
experience!
Once the
transformation was done, he faced the mirror and he cried! "My God, what did I
do wrong?" I asked myself. I was surprised when he exclaimed to himself
loudly…"This is me...the real me...that one I have always dreamt to
be...we cried out our emotions out of empathy."
This was the
missing part of my life: the meaning to everything that I had experienced in
the distant past and the meaning of the new way of life became clear to
me.
It was in
1997 when the name, idea, hope, and the "dream" came to my heart:
Transdreams!
And here I
was. Starting over again with a new image but this time with a heart full of
passion for the business I subconsciently always longed to start.
It was just a
few years ago when I started Transdreams. From that time on, I completely
dedicated my life, time, and effort to it, innovating, and modifying it to
better serve the transgender community in a very personalized way.
I have always
known that in warfare, one must have ammunition. This motto motivated me into
constantly upgrading my artistic skills in the cosmetics application, attending
seminars, courses and trainings every now and then.
In my own
way, I am convinced that I can greatly contribute to the transgender community
by helping people letting their pent-up desires to look desirously feminine. It
does not, however, end with make-up, wigs, and wardrobe (a wide collection of
which I proudly have). Out of my own experiences in life, I selflessly give all
my clients realistic advice of how to live life as a woman, its difficulties,
as well as its deeper blessings if we dare to strive.
Through the
good and the bad times, I have withstood the test of time. I am proud of who I
had been, because without it, I would never be who and what I am
now!
To all my
transgender friends, those who know me and those who do not, my gratitude goes
out to all of you. You are and will always be a part of my life…thank you
for letting me be.
Lady Cassandra
In my work I help people to
achieve transdreams, males as well as females. Mistresses as well as ladies.
With my services and many different other activities, from fetish parties to
wedding celebrations. >From dreams to reality:
You can see more of Lady
Cassandra and the services she offers here www.transdreams.nl
Fetish partys are anouced
at: www.transgendermistress.com
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