Let's dispose
of the timewasters among us first and sadly, in tandem with making contact in
the Transgendered World much easier, the internet has become a timewasters
heaven.
But before you make
an arrangement to meet a girl and simply don't show, with no warning, remember
that although the internet seems vast in the scene, locally, it is still a
village. So if you do let a girl down, you can be sure that the jungle drums
will be beating and you will be branded a timewaster for ever more. So think
long and hard if your nerve goes and you cannot go through with it, failure to
send a simple text or an email, will have long term consequences if you intend
to pursue an interest in Tv's.
And guys, please
remember, that although you and I can be ready in ten minutes - a quick shower
and shampoo, scoot of something smelly round the dangly bits, and we're off -
the same does not apply to a girl. In some cases, a TV will take two or three
hours, just to make herself the very best she can be and to respond to that
effort and the basic, often difficult task of making the time, by not showing,
is unforgivable.
Remember, that
the girl you wish to meet may well be married with all the time committment
that is involved and the few hours that you are about to ruin, may be the only
time in that week, that she has to indulge her interest. So if you intend to be
a timewaster, please find a Chat Room, where you can get your rocks off with
TV's or CD's and don't put people through the nonsense of getting ready for
nothing.
Now we can move on to the guys who cannot get a meet
because they make the simple error, of treating TV's different from Genetic
Girls, there may be physical differences, but that's where it ends. Please
remember that the whole point of dressing is to satisfy the need to be as
convincing a woman as a girl can be, so treating her like a lump of sexual
meat, is unlikely to work.
There
are girls of course who like to be treated as lumps of meat, that's there bag
and everyone has their own way of getting their fun, but in main, try treating
the TV you like, as you did your childhood sweetheart.
Be polite, be complimentary and try to make her feel
that for the few moments that you are chatting, or are indeed meeting, the very
best she can feel, as a woman. Quite apart from giving the pleasure that
behaving in that manner will give to your girl, it is after all a matter of
simple courtesy, a consideration that you offer to everyone else in your life.
Being in the TV scene is not a
charter for bad manners and again, if you behave in nasty and inconsiderate
way, these same jungle drums will surely be beating out the message -
Arsehole.
Everyone has a
budget of course, but if it's possible try taking a room for your meet, there
is inexpensive accomodation available all over the country, that provides
discreet, comfortable rooms. There is a group called Formula which is just
starting to spread, who will knock out a room for under £30 and of
course, Premier Lodge, Travell Inn and Travel Lodge.
In the main, Premier Lodge offers just the best value
but all three chains are perfect, in that they do not care how many people use
the rooms, or indeed, what they are used for, Try if you can, to book in,
organise the room, perhaps with a bottle of wine to take the nervousness away
and then leave the key in some secure place, for the girl to collect while you
make yourself scarce.
Have something to
eat while she changes and gets herself ready for your mutual fun, on her own
time and at her leisure, if indeed that is her taste. It's important if you
initiated the conversation that led to a date, to be prepared to pay for the
room, although I know that many couples who meet in this way regularly, will
share the costs of the day.
There are many venues now, like the Philbeach in London or the
many in the Village in Manchester, where it's possible to pop in for a drink
and instantly be in the company of Tgirls. Remember that some will only want
the company of others girls and respect that please, to do otherwise will only
create a bad vibe, which may rub off on the girls that do enjoy male company.
Before you make a move, reflect on the times when you
were chasing a GG. The first thing you would do would be to informally
introduce yourself and offer to buy her a drink - hey - that works wonders with
a TV.
It is very possible that
every girl that is in the bar or club, will not be looking for sex but many
will be, however they may not be over keen on having it, with a drunk who
stands on the toes of her favourite shoes.
Be considerate,
complimentary and interesting in these situations, it works, there is no doubt
and apart from the delights of TV sex, you are likely to enjoy wonderful
company in the process. For you guys who are at the stage - girls remember that
guys go through a transistion as well, mostly to do with confidence - of taking
a girl out for a meal, the above does not apply.
You
have discovered the virtue of being a good listener, understanding the effort
that went in to creating a special date and the joy of TV sex. So having said
all that the golden rule is that which applies to hetrosexual dating, gay
dating and trying to get to know the TV that really turns you on -
be nice. |
